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3 New Golden Rules of the Engagement Ring

  • By Erik Rathmayr
  • 25 May, 2018
You only get one chance to do it right. If you don't, she'll remember it for the rest of her life. Forgetting to get down on one knee and put a ring on her finger is a no-no. But there are new rules when it comes to choosing the right engagement ring.

The ring has a permanent effect on the psyche of your bride-to-be. An 18-carat engagement ring may look impressive, but it may not be practical for daily wear.

Here’s the new set of rules you should apply when choosing that all-important ring:

Think of Lifestyle

An 18-carat engagement ring may look stunning, but it may not be practical for everyday wear. Before buying an engagement ring, ask yourself if this piece is something she would want to use every day or just for special occasions. If it’s the former, a flat band with small diamond is a smart choice, as it’s practical for an active woman. Plus, a bunch of smaller diamonds is normally more affordable than one big rock.

Learn the 4 Cs

You’ll need to familiarise yourself with the 4C’s: carat, clarity, colour, and cut, if you’re set with a diamond. Carat describes the weight of the diamond, while clarity refers to the subtle characteristics that are seen under magnification. Most diamonds have a hint of colour, describing its shade through letter grades D-Z. Lastly, cut describes the placement, number, and shape of the facets. The light that bounces off from the facets is what causes the diamond to sparkle.

Be Brave to Break the Tradition

The outdated rule of thumb was that grooms-to-be should spend anywhere from one to three months’ salary on the engagement ring. As priorities shift, this rule has been broken by most grooms-to-be. Some women even wouldn’t want their fiancée to spend that much money on a ring. Make it a personal decision based on the importance of that ring to your fiancée. Robert H Parker & Sons will help you choose the ring that suits your lifestyle, budget, and preferences.

Just as some guys spend most of their lives searching for “the one” and others have no trouble finding it, there’s no right amount of time for shopping for the right engagement ring. It’s not a quick fix. You’ll have to look at many stones and consider several factors to get a good feel. No matter how long it takes, we’ll take the time to listen to your ideas and translate them into beauty.

Contact us and we’ll gladly help you come up with the right ring.

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